Christina Gesing
Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist, Systemic Sex Therapist, and Couples Counselor
„Our love lives deeply influence our happiness. I believe fulfillment comes from exploring ourselves, making conscious choices, and daring to pursue what we truly desire.“
Berlin, Online
Languages: English, & German

About me
My name is Christina (she/her), and I am a cognitive behavioural psychotherapist and systemic sex therapist passionate about helping individuals and multi-person setups navigate the complexities of relationships, intimacy, and personal growth.
With training in Germany and the Netherlands and extensive international experience, I work with expats and clients worldwide. While my main focus is in the area of relationships, gender and sexuality, in the past I worked across the whole spectrum of psychological challenges such as, depression, anxiety, social phobia, trauma, low self-esteem & more. My approach integrates scientifically grounded methods such as CBT and systemic therapy with body-based and experiential techniques, all tailored to your unique needs. I regularly engage in advanced trainings and supervision with field-leading experts to provide you with the highest quality support.
Book a Free 20 min Exploratory Call
If you are interested in working together, book your call here or email me at Christina.Gesing@gmail.com
Specialisations
1) Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity: I warmly welcome clients in non-traditional relationships (e.g., polyamory, open rela4onships),
– LGBTQIA+ individuals ( incl. support during transitioning),
– kink-positive clients (BDSM & Fetish) as well as sex workers.
2) Romantic Relationships and Sexuality: Also, I might be the right therapist for you if your goals falls in one of the following or related areas:
-Building and deepening Connection
– Exploring new dimensions of intimacy.
– Balancing bonding and autonomy; navigating attachment styles.
– Authentic sexual expression and self-discovery, including the exploration of erotic interests
Addressing Challenges in Relationships
– Conflict resolution and constructive communication.
– Coping with infidelity, relational betrayal, and other attachment injuries.
– Opening relationships and thriving in non-monogamy.
Sexual Wellbeing
– Overcoming body shame.
– Recovering from sexual trauma.
– Addressing low desire, orgasm challenges, erectile dysfunction or vaginismus
Navigating Life Changes
– Recovering from heartbreak and separation.
– Regaining autonomy in codependent relationships.
– Navigating life transitions such as relocation, career shifts, or parenthood.
– Addressing the intersection of cultural, sexual, and relational identities & many more.
Qualifications
– 2024/2025 Differentiation-based Couples Therapy, Institut für Differenzierungsbasiertes Arbeiten by Berit Brockhausen & Carlotta Baehr
– 2024 Consensual Non-Monogamy: Course and Consulting Group by Martha Kauppi
– 2023 Systemic Integrative Couples Therapy by Friederike von Tiedemann
– 2020 -2023 Systemic Sex Therapy by Ulrich Clement
– 2021 Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist, Psychological School Berlin, DE
– 2015 Master of Science Psychology, University of Groningen, NL
– 2015 Master of Arts in Future Studies, Free University of Berlin, DE
– 2012 Bachelor of Science Hons., University of Groningen, NL
Fees
Please contact me directly for more information at Christina.Gesing@gmail.com
Contact
I look forward to hearing from you.
You can read more about my services on ChristinaGesing.com