The Necessity in Taking a Break

What is Self-care?

Self-care is basically anything you do on purpose to take care of your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. It’s not just bubble baths and face masks (though those totally count)—it’s about tuning into what you need and giving yourself that love, rest, or boost.

Here’s a simple way to think of it:

  • Mental self-care: Setting boundaries, saying no, taking breaks, journaling, therapy, mindfulness.

  • Physical self-care: Moving your body, sleeping well, eating nourishing food, staying hydrated.

  • Emotional self-care: Checking in with your feelings, talking to someone you trust, doing things that make you happy.

  • Spiritual self-care (if it resonates): Meditation, prayer, time in nature, connecting with something bigger than yourself.

It’s not selfish—it’s necessary. When you prioritise yourself, even in small ways, you’re saying: I am enough. 💛

Why is Self-care important?

  1. Keeps Your Mind Right
    Life gets hectic, and if you don’t give yourself a breather, stress will pile up fast. Self-care helps clear your head, boost your mood, and keep anxiety from running the show.

  2. Keeps Your Body Running Smooth
    Eating decent food, getting sleep, moving your body—those little things add up. Self-care keeps your energy up and helps you stay strong and healthy long-term.

  3. Makes You Better for the People You Love
    You can’t pour from an empty cup. When you feel good, you show up better for your friends, your family, your coworkers—everyone. Taking care of you helps you take care of them too.

What are some examples of self-care?


Mental Self-Care

  • Unplugging from social media for a day

  • Reading a book just for fun

  • Journaling your thoughts or gratitude


Emotional Self-Care

  • Talking to a friend or therapist about how you’re feeling

  • Listening to music that matches your mood

  • Watching a movie that makes you laugh or feel understood


Physical Self-Care

  • Taking a walk or doing a quick stretch session

  • Cooking yourself a nourishing meal

  • Getting enough sleep (or taking a nap)


Spiritual Self-Care

  • Meditating or doing breathwork

  • Spending time in nature

  • Journaling about your purpose or what brings you peace


Fun & Creative Self-Care

  • Drawing, painting, or crafting—even if you’re “not good at it”

  • Dancing in your room like no one’s watching

  • Decluttering your space so it feels calm and cozy


The need for time off, whether it’s in the form of vacations, breaks, or simply downtime, is crucial for maintaining overall well-being and productivity. Many of us feel that if we take time off, we take a break, we are not being productive and we will simply have our world ‘fall apart’. But in not taking a break, mentally we will become overwhelmed, be less productive and end up eventually burning out. Here are several reasons why time off is so important to our mental wellbeing:

1. Rest and Relaxation: Allows individuals to rest and recharge, both physically and mentally. It helps prevent burnout and exhaustion, which can negatively impact performance and mental health.

2. Stress Reduction: Stepping away from work can reduce stress levels by providing a break from daily responsibilities and allowing time for hobbies, relaxation, and spending time with loved ones. Don’t under estimate the importance in quality time with the kids or with your partner or with friends. These are the people that are going to be there in the end. Invest time and enjoyment with these people and you will find your stress goes down considerably

3. Enhanced Creativity and Problem-Solving: When you take a break from work, tasks, the hassles of everyday life, it can lead to increased creativity and improved problem-solving skills. When the mind is allowed to rest and wander, it can make new connections and generate fresh ideas. This is productive! It is not a ‘waste of time’ but rather a means to move forward, get unstuck and gain energy.

4. Improved Focus and Productivity: As mentioned above, regular breaks can improve concentration and productivity by preventing mental fatigue. Would you lift kettle bell for hours on end? We would likely not press any muscle in our body to the brink. So why do it to our brain and mental capacities. Taking time off allows individuals to return to work with renewed energy and focus.

5. Physical Health Benefits: For those of us getting older (which is all of us), taking time off can contribute to better physical health by reducing the risk of stress-related illnesses, improving sleep quality, and providing opportunities for physical activity and outdoor recreation. Leave the laundry, clean the kitchen later, write the report in an hour. Now, breath, sit, stretch, relax—just 10 mins and you will improve your health and your life.

6. Work-Life Balance: We hear the term ‘work-life balance’ all the time—but how is it possible in a life that requires us to do more and more work to feel like we are successful. The truth is work-life balance is not about ‘working hard and playing hard’. It is about listening to our bodies and our minds. Taking a walk. Putting on noise cancelling headphones, breathing deeply, thinking about what truly matters brings us into balance. Yes, we need to work and do our jobs but we also need to take a break, leave it and recognise what is important and gives us joy. Taking a break for individuals allows us to prioritize personal and family needs, fostering happier and more fulfilling lives overall. If you are anxious about taking a break, it might prove helpful to seek professional support. You need to learn ways to better cope and manage life—it does not stop because we are stressed. So we have to stop ourselves from getting overwhelmed and learn ways to navigate our hectic lives. so we can actually live our lives—not be ruled by what we believe life demands.


Cynthia Kunze, MA

Senior Psychologist at PsyShrink.com