From The Therapy Room: Just Disappear

I don’t want to get out of bed.

I tell myself: coffee first. Just the sofa. That’s all.

I sigh. I move. I get there.

Now I don’t want to get off the sofa. I tell myself to make breakfast. Everyone needs to eat.

I move slowly. I get there.

I don’t want to get up from the table. I don’t want to clean the dishes. I don’t want to shower. I certainly don’t want to work. All I want is to go back to bed and for the world to agree that this is reasonable.

I want to just disappear. Not die — disappear. There’s a difference, and I know exactly what it is. I want the heaviness to lift. I want to care about something, about myself. But I don’t. Not today.

I tell myself: you will feel worse if you stay. You don’t have the luxury of giving up. Just breathe. Just shoes. Just the door.

Reluctantly, I go outside.

I am exhausted, even though I slept. Moving, breathing, feeling  — everything costs something I don’t have.

I walk past people going about their day and I think: how?

And then: what if they feel this too? Or is it just me?

I don’t want to speak to anyone. I give myself permission not to. And then someone speaks to me, and I answer, and somehow the world doesn’t end.

I breathe. I just keep walking.

This too will pass. It always has. I don’t believe it today, but I know it. And knowing is enough.


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